I know it's frustrating. My wife and have not had physical interaction except kissing since october. She barely kisses me but will do it all with the OM. Sometimes our physical needs of sex and affection get in the way of our goal.
I considered this myself but had to ask myself what could come of this? Not one scenario ended well. Just a recipe for for disaster. Disaster for marriage, you, and your new mate.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years