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Make plans so you don't have to worry about her asking or not... if she does ask then you are busy and if she doesn't ask you are busy... catch my drift!?

You are worrying too much about what she might or might not do.

Good... so if she doesn't want to hear it... no need to say stuff like that then right?

Go make some fun plans for your bday!

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Originally Posted By: pinn
Make plans so you don't have to worry about her asking or not... if she does ask then you are busy and if she doesn't ask you are busy... catch my drift!?

You are worrying too much about what she might or might not do.

Good... so if she doesn't want to hear it... no need to say stuff like that then right?

Go make some fun plans for your bday!


THe only problem is I would love for her to want to hear that, but is she does want to hear that than I'd never know. When we talked on Friday on the phone for 30 mins I actually did say light heartedly that I'm still not giving up on her and she did kinda giggle so who knows maybe she does want to hear it. Either way I made plans sat night with friends and I'll prob just go to my folks fri evening so I don't have a choice if she asks

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If she calls or texts be cordial and respond. But absolutely no invite. This is one consequence for not being with you.


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If she calls or texts be cordial and respond. But absolutely no invite. This is one consequence for not being with you.


Good point, maybe me turning her down would make her really think about her choice to be a waw.



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