Just started the day/week with a big fight. I broke every rule again. I was aggressive in the fight. I didn't listen. I didn't valid. I am angry. I am hurt. I want her to open up and talk about where she is.
All these things were wrong and she pushed way back from me. I am pushing her away.
What's the point of me holding out the olive branch. Why do I try to validate her feelings at this point. I have not received any validation or empathy from her since her A started.
Sorry I'm venting but had to get these feelings out. Things are taking a turn for the worse.
Don't feel bad for wanting your own feelings validated. Validation is a two way street. You both deserve to have your feelings validated by the other.
Some advice though. Right now you look clingy and pathetic. That's a very unattractive quality.
Think about a time in life when you broke up with someone. If they acted clingy and pathetic all that did was make you pity them and want them far away from you. They were very unattractive. Now the flip side...if you broke up with someone and then saw they were doing great, were happy, and doing even better without you then you started questioning why you broke up with them and that's the one you regretted and wanted back. They were very attractive to you.
Channel that anger toward making yourself the most awesome version of you that you can be. Work out, get in killer shape, go do really fun things without even inviting her. Be the guy that men want to be and ladies want to be with. Any man can be that man. Get yourself into physical and mental shape. Start now.
Let her go. Who cares what she's doing. Her business. You've got too many awesome plans yourself to be worried about her. Be that man and she'll respond. Trust me, I know.
