Gonna find this difficult as she always finds some way of getting into contact "due to the kids" I feel she's temperaturing. I'm going to be the better person for her when she eventually comes to her senses. But until then am going to stick with DR'ing and limit the contact as much as possible without it impacting the boys.
Thanks
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".