there's nothing to feel guilty about...you learned something. I used to think that as long as there was chemistry everything else could be worked out but now I've moved beyond that. I recognize that relationships are a ton of work even when there's a good fit. I no longer want to pour myself into making things fit. I now look at people beyond just chemistry. I'm not willing to change my life drastically just to fit someone else's life. I've passed on a few potential relationships because important parts were missing. Sometimes I do miss the feeling of being a part of someone's life, being in that special place but I also recognize that I need fit not just chemistry. If it's not there then it's not there. My life is just fine the way it is. Hey, good luck with the house! You're starting to think beyond your hurt again and that's a good sign.
