I empathize. I want an answer from my WH as well. But I'm not pushing for an answer since I don't want him giving me one I don't want to hear. Although if he sincerely thinks it's over and that is what he actually wants then he owes it to us to end it, so we can both move on. When I get the way you are feeling and want to talk to him I just remind myself that it's my insecurities speaking. Not me. And i walk away from my phone and find something else to do. So I don't contact him and argue. It's super hard. Because I want him to know he's hurting me and the kids with this behavior. But he knows. I don't need to drive that point home anymore. I wish you luck. And strength.
