Everyone had a great time bowling last night. H mom commented on how strange it is that everything seems so normal. Everyone behaves the same including H as when she's here and things are good... anyway I had a great time and ran into some friends and enjoyed the kids. When we were leaving H said he was going to stay with his mom. I just said okay and asked if the boys wanted to go but they wanted to come home with me.
I was a little upset that h didn't text to say goodnight or if we got home okay but I thought about the bubble reference and decided to just send him a text saying goodnight and we missed him and to have fun with his mom. He just said thanks in reply again, struggling not to let that get to me but I will say I would Normally make a comment about it but instead I just didn't reply and went to bed.
This morning he went to our friends sunglasses shop that he has a gift card for. He originally planned on getting me a pair and him a pair. Well that's what he said a few weeks ago. Instead he got himself 2 pairs. I know it seems dumb but again it makes me realize things are worse then they were even a few weeks ago. But again I'm not going to say anything and try to revert myself to avoid getting worked up over it. I hope one day this gets easier for me.
H mom really wants to talk to him. I asked her not to but my parents said I need to not control what other people want to do regarding H.
What is everyone's opinion on this? I just don't want him to think I asked he to or feel attacked like she's on my side
