I will be honest that I am really worried that it's just an emotional swing right now. She has answered all of my questions and her body langue and actions are all pointing to wanting to work. I have told her that this is going to be a long hard road back to us. She stated she is willing to work and do everything to make it. We talked about her cheating and she told me she is sorry that she treated me this way. And I know it's all only words right now but she has done everything I have asked her to do in regards to nc with other man. Baby steps I'm not going to rush into anything. Like everyone says we have the rest of our lives to figure this out