By the way T0, there is a three part series on YouTube called Marriage Expectations by Andy Stanley that might really be inspiring to you. Parts I and II spoke deeply to me. I must not have been ready for part III wink
Whether you believe in God or not, the model is sound. The model looks like this- your number one relationship is between you and God. God is asking you to act towards your spouse as you'd act towards God. Not because they deserve it. But because God asked you to. So your relationship isn't between you and H, it's between you and God.
If you can go to bed knowing you have a good relationship with God and with yourself and have tried living up to the highest standards, then all is well. Let go of your will and let God's will be done, and have faith that you will be given a path through it.
Again, whether you are religious or not this is a good path. And your H may be at the center of a lot of interactions, but he's not at the center of the journey you're on.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
