As I mentioned before, wife and I are supposed to go on a weekend trip July 28. Is below a flawed way of thinking?
Just go and see what happens. I haven't been alone with my wife for probably more than 3-4 hours since October. I do plan on continuing my detached state but plan on speaking to her if she speaks to me. Our marriage fell apart because of me detaching so that's kind of hard. I was thinking maybe I should go since hopefully Ill be in a stable state of mind then. My plan was to go and see how its works out. If nothing, then Ill just have to go dark after that. I was thinking that as an internal deadline. I wont tell her that of course.
As told by Kaizen don't do it. At the moment I agree but was wondering if my counter has any legs or just wishful thinking?
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
