I'm struggling on how to be nice but indifferent. How to respond when he kisses me says ILY etc.
I haven't messaged him any pics like I normally would for the last two days. But do I ask about his day ever. We were supposed to start going to the gym together Monday. Do I just start going alone?
I'm just wondering because cleaning up my side of the street regarding the things he Harped on about me was me not trusting him and I haven't asked him wheee he was or questioned him or said anything about him being on his phone for over a month. The other thing was him not feeling appreciated, me not kissing him when he comes in the door, him feeling like I don't care about him ... i don't want a D but I know I need to detach. I just struggle with how do I detach but still fight for my M? I don't even know if what I'm asking makes sense. I don't want to throw in the towel. Me detaching is what I need to do for me but I don't know that it's going to help me save my M if I'm not doing the things he complained about if that makes sense.