Mlcers will become competitive w/their children. Why? Because their inner child is what is coming out right now and doing the things that he/she needs to do to resolve those unresolved issues from so long ago.
I wouldn't say another word about the OW. The mlcer will lie and tell you things that they think you want to hear, while all the while hooking up w/this other person. Of course, the mlcer lies to them as well.
His visit to the Mother Ship is going to take a long time. This is not a sprint, but a marathon. You didn't break him, therefore you can't fix him or make him wake up. The best thing you can do is live your life to the fullest and dial down those expectations because he's not a mature man right now and he's only thinking of himself in a very selfish, self-centered way.
So, what have you been doing to help you get through this rough time? Are you focusing on you and your children? It's been a while since you last posted and it would be nice to hear something about how you are doing as well as what's been going on in your world.
Please continue posting. Don't be a stranger.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
