Boston Dad in need of Help

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One other bit of advice: often she will use definitive language, like "you never help around the house". It will be tempting to refute that and give examples of all the things you actually do around the house.

Instead, you can say "I understand you feel like I never help around the house"

In that case, you're not arguing, but you're also not agreeing, you're just acknowledging that her feelings are her feelings.

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