Boston Dad in need of Help

[Teppo]

Ok, here's a question for you all. My wife and I will be seeing our deacon on Saturday and this is were she's going to give me all the reasons for wanting a divorce. How should I handle this? I read about validating her hurt and feelings, but is there anything in particular I should do? I may not agree with everything she says, but I want her to know that I'm truly sorry for what I've done and that I hope she gives us a second chance. I don't want to beg and get emotional, but I'm afraid I and drive her further away. What should I do?