Words are very powerful. The things you tell yourself are very powerful. You convince yourself of things. You've convinced yourself that there is no reason to stay with W. Now you've convinced yourself that you had to file for D. You HAD to file? No, you DECICED to file! Those are two very different things. Why have you told yourself you HAD to file? That almost absolves you for the DECISION you made. There for sure were reasons but you did not HAVE to do anything. You CHOSE to.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
