Many of us wish we were in your shoes re: piecing, reconciliation, etc. Your sharing has shown us it's not that easy. In all honesty it would be easier to start a new life - but, that's not why were are here.
I wish I could be of more help. I think it was TxHubby who said we want our WAS to kick the habit of their addiction. They won't do it until we neutralize our addiction to them.
Keep on
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017