FWIW

I think reconciling is hard of course, and not that common.

BUT it is so much easier than piecing. The LBSer tends to disbelieve that, or to think that if the recon happens,

they can return to the pre BD phase. OR they think piecing is endless amends making on the part of the WAS, but that will not and really should not, happen

We tend to want reconciliation to be Like a time machine turning the clock back...If only...

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change