I really don't want a BD. But at this point, she has noticed all the changes and seems to be disrespectful behind my back. But in my face, its like were a normal married couple without the intimacy. But we still have sex on occasion. DR book says give it even more time. But IC says that you need to ask her to work on the MR at this point or ask her to leave. And several close friends of ours are strongly suggesting that I do the same. I just don't want my W to get so far out there, that I don't want the woman that she ends up becoming. Who really wants an S who just decides to go spreading their legs for just anybody. Not sure if that is happening for sure. But I don't want that in a S.
