Originally Posted By: Ginger1
Just to clarify, did you begin piecing as soon as OM dumped her?


Yep, a week later. As soon as she showed true remorse, I took her back. I shouldn't have. I should have continued with the D process, at least for a time. She needed to see that she lost me because of what she did. She didn't have to work to get me to let her back. That's not to say she hasn't done work since then; she has. But I made it WAY to easy for her to come back.

She remained in her rent house during the first month of our piecing while we began dating, ML and spending time together. She started sleeping every night at our home at the beginning of month two and was fully moved back in before the end of the second month of piecing.


Me: 48 y/o
W: 47 y/o
Together: > 20 yrs
BD: Dec '15, then S
2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D
April '16: started piecing