I thought in my mind he's going to do what he wants and how cold he was to me and the cursing was like last BD which is the first time he's been like that to me this entire time. So I felt like well now I know where we are going...
So before reading your posts I thought well I'm going to have to figure this out and be on my own when he does leave (no matter how messed up it is in my mind to leave right now) so I figured I mind as well get out of his way.
When he got home I just said I would be okay with the baby here by myself so he could stay with his mom. He said she didn't want him to and I didn't say anything else. I also had been trying to come up with s plan for the days H is at work since she doesn't rent a car and I'll be in school. I decided I won't do that anymore. Even though I'm doing it with the best intentions I'm sure he sees it as me controlling so instead I'm going to do nothing. I'll just go to the office come home and if he asks me to go I will. On my days off I'll set up things with her when he's not around but I won't make any plans or suggestions for the times he's off work
Normally I'll set up making dinner or making dinner reservations etc. I won't do any of that. I'll let MIL know so she doesn't think I'm being rude toward her but this way H can feel like I'm not trying to control anything.
