Interesting your IC suggested you should separate. I don't believe mine has given me specific advice and only walked me through my own discernment.
Still though you're ambivalent like me. Some on here say that you will just know when it's time. I don't feel that way yet myself although I have no hope. Take advantage though of your ability to talk to others. The only person I have to talk to is my IC.
If you don't really want a divorce though then there's no reason to discuss it. Don't give it legs.
Keep posting.
Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs 4 children ILYBNILWY 1/30/17 PA confronted 3/6/17 Separated same house
