Alright everyone, just returned from IC and it was suggested that I ask W for a separation if she isn't willing to work on the MR at this point. At this point, I have no clue if she is contacting other men or not. But the concern is that my W talking bad behind my back to people. And then smiling in my face at home will somehow cause me to get upset and backtrack. I discussed this with my W best friend and he suggested that it was time to separate and file for a BD myself. Says he known her since they were 9 years old and she basically wants to be out screwing other men. Apparently my W told him quite a bit before he got fed up and stopped talking to her.
His suggestion based on their past is that its going to take me filing or signing those final papers to make her realise the mistakes she's making. Friend also stated that she has never listened to his advice, even though he has proven to be right countless times. So he applauds me for my efforts, but he already knows what needs to be done. W knows she is dead wrong, but has to fall on her face to finally get it. And to be honest, I knew this for myself. But was hoping, praying and DB'ing that it wouldn't have to come to this. So my question is should I take this advice or continue on the path on limbo?
