Srry haven't been able to reply to previous messages I'll get there.
H told me he would be gone staying with MIL the next 10 days. I asked if he would be staying st home with me the nights I have to be out of the house at 530 to help with the baby because he usually helps those nights. He flipped out that I'm just trying to start [censored] and show my ass while his parents are here every time and that I'm trying to control him. I said I wasn't that I just need help the couple nights with the baby that it's a lot to do alone with all 3 kids and making sure the dogs cats etc are taken care of. He told me we need to just get it over with and part ways. Then I tried to ask him are you seriously going to do this right now
He just said I'm done with you done talking about this with you it's over. I'm not doing this anymore. I just said I'm not dealing with this while your moms here
I don't know how to fake being nice to someone that is so cold. I need help at home with a newborn who gets up every 1 1/2-2hours at night and to expect to be gone for 10 days is insane to me. Maybe I'm unrealistic but when I have to be gone for 13 hours on mondays tuesdays and thursdays I would like a little help. I'm not the only parent.
