ILYBNILWY part 3

[Bdog37]

East,

I just think what everyone is saying is to take it slow with this new GF. Just the other day you were telling everyone how hard it is for you to detach from your W and how it would be so much easier if you still didn't care.

I get were you are coming from, I really do. The woman my W turned into made me want to scream out just like you did. Why don't I deserve happiness?!?! Why do I have to be the sole responsible one for our kids while she is off running around with the OM!?! Why can't I have something nice for once?!?! All the while doing this I realized something... that I was still hurt. I just think if you have to question these things then maybe you are still too? I could be wrong, you are the one that filed, but if I am then why are you finding it so hard to detach from her? And if you are then maybe this new GF is a "band aid" for that pain?

You still admit caring for your W at times so I just think that is why people are trying to offer their advice in regards to the GF. You don't want to hurt her either in the process of healing yourself.