and for me that was worse: she was 20 I was 30. But I never felt our age gap was a real issue. It seems that NOW she is 30 she is reconsidering things. Just trying to figure out if she is depressed because of our marriage or because of something else. I know when I was 30 I wasn't possessing the skills I needed to avoid many of our problems. I am working on it, but my impulsive nature and desire to just have her in my arms are interfering
