I'm sorry you find yourself here. I have been quietly reading this thread and please know, I have been called many things, but never have I been called judgmental. I'm pretty open minded, however, I did notice your comment about GF not wanting to interfere with your marriage of something of the sort because of religious reasons. Um....there is some irony in that because you are MARRIED. Sorry, hope I don't sound like a stick in the mud. That is not a knock against her-I'm sure she is a lovely person. I'm just pointing out something rather obvious.
I have only read this thread but this seems to be moving at speed of light!!!! Can I ask you something? What is the rush????? Am I reading that BD was in late October. It's early June so if I am calculating correctly you think you are in love with someone else while married to your W a mere 7 or 8 months after the initial BD? I know we are all different, however, THIS I cannot buy as legit.
As Don said, you seem like a genuine guy with no malice intended towards anyone. I agree with everyone that I don't get the spewing with your W. That blows my mind too. You are allegedly in love....what are you fighting with your W about?? Maybe I missed something in the first 2 threads?
I don't know. I have never had any desire to date a married or separated man. Again, I'm not religious (quite the opposite) so *I* would question what kind of man I was dating if we was still married. He might be sweet, funny, kind, and fabulous to be around, BUT I would have a VERY difficult time just pushing this aside. Again, this is not directed towards your GF-this is more about your situation.
So again, what is the big hurry? And as always, I truly am sorry you find yourself here. It's a tough place to be with some awesome folks.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
