Hi NYGal,

Glad to see you around! I'm happy to hear that you are still working on things with W, and I'm sorry that you still don't have complete transparency in your R. Are you still in couples' counseling? Would it be a thought to bring up your gut feeling there to see if W will decide to come clean?

I would have such a hard time being with someone who was lying to me. I agree that patience is key, but I think it should be addressed somehow.


M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17