I have decided for myself to follow my gut. See what is working in getting her to want to spend time with me and look at her actions not just her words. It's incredibly hard but anytime I try to do more from my side it ends up feeling like we rush things and she feels cornered. In my case I suspect depression plays a role which further complicates it. BUT I do think based on how you feel about W you should be able to tell if she is serious or not. But maybe I am fooling myself.
It is also important to recognize what YOU did wrong and need to change. So I have decided to in my interactions with her to show her a side I didn't show but one she wants. The hard part is not doing more or expecting a reaction.
