With your ex and you being civil and you being in a new relationship, why are you strictly NC with exception of co-parenting talk?
Thanks!
My ex married his AP and we both have moved on. We have a daughter, so we really only contact about coparenting stuff and we could ALL be together civilly. We do so for sporting events and the such.
But NC for us means we do not call and ask how each other is doing. We aren't friends. We are civil for peace and for our daughter.
So, I wouldn't say we are no contact, but by Kaizen's definition, we are no contact except for coparenting. Which to me means, we aren't friends. He is not someone I would ever want to be friends with.
Id say I agree with this. Why would I want to be friends with someone that shows no remorse for lying to me, cheating on me, etc, etc? The kids deserve for their parents to be on speaking terms, they are too young with too many awesome life events still to come to need to worry about having their parents in separate rooms all the time. That doesnt mean I want to go on double dates or anything like that.
