We have a trip planned to Germany in a couple of weeks. This is something I've wanted to do for many years. If we end up having a conversation about her continued feelings for OM or the text messages she sent regarding that, then I think our trip could be in jeopardy. I could be looking at having to make that trip by myself. That would be a real tragedy but I would go by myself if needed.
LiM,
My opinion, for what it's worth, is that it's smart to remain status quo for the next couple of weeks so that you don't jeopardize your trip to Germany. The trip may be a good litmus test that will allow you to decide what you want from your wife and marriage. Sometimes a change in venue can make a world of difference.
