Hi,

I'm going to address all the thoughtful posts from yesterday tomorrow. I am in clinic Monday Tuesday and Thursday so Wednesday is my catch up day. mIL gets here tomorrow so I'll be cleaning up the house too.

But I am zipping my mouth with H. I'm going to give it the 30 days Zues challenged me to.

As far as that woman is concerned there will be no more words exchanged. I also will ask MIL when I see her to not discuss anything regarding me with her.

H text me today asking if we wanted to go bowling tonight so when he got home from work we took the boys. We just got home and had a good time. He's still distant and said to me when he got home before we left 'you can come if you want it's up to you' I used going as an opportunity to have fun with the kids and be nice but didn't force conversation with H

Anyway, with his mom being here it will be easier to leave it be because he will be acting normal since he hasn't told her anything is going on.


M 31 H 34
S 6 S 9
BD 2/14 Piecing 8/14