And when I tell her that, I am sure she will say she isn't in an EA/PA. Do I admit to her then that I snooped her calls? Would that be a bad ting to admit? Or do I maybe ask to see her phone if she denies it and say nothing of the phone bill?
When we communicate it has gone better lately and I am just very leery of doing anything to cause a negative conversation.
Hello sjohns6,
Yes, this sounds like cake eating. No need to admit to the snooping because there is no upside in sharing that info with her.
What did you decide about MC?
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