Yes H mom told Me she asked her to reach out to H which is why I reached out to the woman to tell her to please not contact H on my behalf.
She has told me herself and told me last BD that H was obviously unhappy and divorce is better for the children then an unhappy father. This is the same thing she said this time.
H hasn't seen her in over 12 years and they haven't really talked since last BD.
I had a feeling before H mom admitted to me that she asked her to talk to him that the woman already knew because she had been texting me a lot prying on how were things. I thought she was just wondering about the baby but now I know that wasn't the case.
She's been divorced 3 times and I guess I felt I 'know' she's pro divorce from the things she's said. She told me obviously H isn't happy at home if he's saying he's done and that he's done this before and he obviously feels he made the wrong decision coming back and that he shouldn't just stick around for the kids. That he deserves to be happy
