Exquisite sorry but that was awful . He must be completely messed up to do that. That is why I said if I can confirm a ow now it will release me from any possibility I might think of. I can't go live at his place as he need to Sponser the kids. Also we talked about that a year ago and due to his finances kids residencies on him might be an issue and we might become liable. So that is not an option. We can only visit him. I did that last year and paid fully for that. We had good time but he was broken. In Jan I offered to join us in a trip then I also offered to go and see him but he kept postponing. I recently learned he saw his family mom and siblings in April after more than a year since he last did. And maybe two since he saw his siblings. He feels like a failure and being with family members makes him feel ashamed too.
M 45 H 45 D1 12 D2 9 BD 04/14 Living two different state Not officially separated
