So I guess what all my posts are saying is that I say I am detaching but I am actually not. I also feel guilty about what I didn't provide her during our decade together even though I always thought I put her first.
Hello Tobias,
You are absolutely right, you are not detaching.
Your wife is cake eating. She is getting her needs met with OM while keeping you around as plan B in case things don't work out with OM. She will continue to do this as long as you allow it. You won't be able to change her behavior, but you can certainly change yours.
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