Stunned, We ALL very badly want our spouses back, or we wouldn't be here. And I think the reason it feels helpless, is because the truth is, we ARE helpless in trying to make another person do something they don't want to do. I think the sooner we make peace with the fact that, like it or not, that's the hand we've been dealt right now, the easier it is to begin to heal. Hang in there!
Thanks I'm trying to hang in there, I was doing good until I heard that she was frustrated for a while and never told me. But I just have to accept what it is now and hope that she will at least be willing to just talk to me again cause as of right now she has zero desire to talk. But again it's not even been 3 weeks yet and she's so focused on moving her stuff out I don't think she's really had time to think about the long term affects of this.
