So, I guess now we are done. W has fully executed her exit plan. I didn't want this, but now we've told D and i think that's does it. I'd promised I wouldn't tell people until D was told, so now I guess I'll tell those who are closest to me. I'm looking forward to time with D at our new home. I'm looking forward to a great future for both D and I. A few more weeks of this and life will be different. An awesome type of different though. W has her freedom and can go her own way. Once we physically split I'm done. I did a year of this. Put my soul into it. Wasn't enough, but I'm ok with that. I'm happy with who I am, as a father and a man. The stress will be lifted and things will be awesome again!
LT
Even. Though the outcome [censored] and isn't what you wanted, you've done great. You've been strong, you've grown, you've made yourself an awesome dad, and have a great relationship with your daughter. Carry on doing this. Sometimes there is. I way home for our W's. I've come to realise that despite the lies and gaslighting, the people they really lie to and gaslight are themselves.
Hold onto the good, let go of the bad, find your peace.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18
