180, I understand the points that 25 and Georgiabelle are conveying to you. I do have a different take on your sitch.
First, you don't have children and I'd venture to guess that neither does the JAG. IMO, not having children makes it easier to date. It is apparent that having her attention has boosted your confidence. Also, it shows you that a D is not the end all, be all.
Here is the main thing in regards to JAG. You have to be honest with yourself and with JAG. You have to be cognizant of your thoughts and feelings and you need to be forthcoming with her. I agree with 25 that you are not completely healed, however at what stage will you be ready? Sometimes trial and error.
Personally, I think we could argue that it is unfair to first person that we date coming out of this mess no matter the time. For most of us, this is possibly the most difficult thing we have experienced. It will undoubtedly affect us in some form or fashion.
Slow and smooth with eyes wide open.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
