Advice needed. W and I have an agreement that she will tell me whenever she sees, hears, talks to, gets an email from, sees a smoke signal... from the ow. We had a rough day yesterday and I got suspicious so I checked her emails. (Don't judge me.) As some of you may recall, we all work at the same place... they are in a meeting right now. So I know, it's just work. But our agreement was that she'd tell me. And she has lied so many times before. "Oh no, I never saw her or talked to her..." after I saw them walking out of a meeting together.
Now remember, they ended the affair last April - then there was the temp checking "closure" lunch last July.
Just yesterday she swore she has not seen or heard from her in months... months, mind you! But I saw the email exchanges on her iPad. They set up this meeting mid-May. That's when I sensed something changing. I have a sixth sense about this. Don't we all?
So what do I do?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat