I was super lucky at the office this morning and too many providers showed up and there weren't enough patients on the schedule so they told me to go home and enjoy my baby. This being gone 3 days a week stinks.
I'm looking for some advice. I'm feeling very very defeated and like H moving out is looming and I'm trying to avoid that
We haven't been to C. H hasn't done anything the C asked. So I picked up the advice that C gave him and I've been doing the things the C said for him to do. I text him during the day. Just pictures. I usually will tell him to have a good day or ask him how his day is. I've seen no change in H. He continues to kiss me when he leaves for work when he gets home and before bed. Not saying ILY as much.
He is super cold and distant. We only talk if I initiate conversation and even then. It's like pulling teeth. I've been loving .. I will go up and kiss him or tell him I love him. Not a lot but occasionally. He reciprocates but doesn't initiate anything. I haven't had any major discussions with him except for asking him to meet me halfway. That I love him and he is important to me and I don't want to lose him or our family. He just says okay or I don't know. So I haven't said anything since then.
My gut feels like he's done and it's over.
Just wondering what I should be doing. Should I stop pursuing him at this point. I cancelled our C appointment. I don't see a point in going when he's just going to say he's done again and when he isn't doing anything the C is asking him to do. So if he asks about going I'll make an appointment. If he doesn't bring it up I'll leave it be.
I just feel lost on my best course of action. I've been making his lunch making sure he has things he likes to snack on in the house doing the things I used to do to be thoughtful. I'm just not sure if that's the wrong thing to do and if I should just be polite but stop kissing him, showing affection and doing things for him when he cannot make any effort.
This being gone 3 days a week stinks. 