W sent me a picture of some flowers she put on my sister's grave in our old home town (where W moved to).
I responded thanks for doing that and she replied "of course".
What a strong emotionaly reaction that created for me. As many of you know, my sister was killed in a auto accident when I was 10 years old. I attribute alot of my issues to the things that happened after she died. I can trace alot of my relationship issues to the trauma I went through.
It's ironic, that the woman I have a dysfuntional relationship with went and put flowers on my sisters grave. And if my sister never died, I probably would not have ended up in a relationship with W.
