Id say I get along with my ex relatively well; we can be in the same room civilly, but it's been essentially completely NC for a few years with the exception of co-parenting talk.
Sorry for the hijack Dale.
Kaizen,
With your ex and you being civil and you being in a new relationship, why are you strictly NC with exception of co-parenting talk?
Thanks!
I am not answering for you, Kainzen, but I wanted to give some perspective from my sitch.
My ex married his AP and we both have moved on. We have a daughter, so we really only contact about coparenting stuff and we could ALL be together civilly. We do so for sporting events and the such.
But NC for us means we do not call and ask how each other is doing. We aren't friends. We are civil for peace and for our daughter.
So, I wouldn't say we are no contact, but by Kaizen's definition, we are no contact except for coparenting. Which to me means, we aren't friends. He is not someone I would ever want to be friends with.
