Hi Huddy - regarding the Tuesday drop off, my advice? Consider paying her extra (in cash) for driving the kids to you and graciously thank her for driving them to you each week. She prefers to be paid in cash and she is saving you time, money and the hassle of driving/bussing the kids. If not for her you'd either need to maintain a car or jump through all sorts of hassle to transport them via bus.

I know you are angry but truth be told, you are fortunate that she drives them to you weekly. She takes a load off your financial and work plate by doing so.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced