I know all of this is very difficult but I very much agree with what moving forward just posted. In fact I was going to tell you that this is not at all yet over and may be just starting. I say that because it's about to get very real for your W. How you handle things moving forward will mean a lot.
Have you done anything with getting a separation agreement in place? I hope you are not going to pay for Ws new apartment. You really need her to expierence being on her own. Do not try to race to help her. Don't invite her to things, don't do all the things she has been saying she doesn't want done. Don't be mean or nasty either. Whatever is fair as dictated by the courts is all you need to do. W needs to see what life is like after she fires her H.
Keep posting here and keep doing everything you have with D. After reality sinks in, W might start to see you are not the monster she created you to be.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
