Hi Huddy, I think others have already advised wisely and I agree that it will be freeing for you when you are able not to go around this same loop again with your W. The loop being - I'm being helpful in hope of a possible reconciliation - now you did something I didn't like - so I'm being unhelpful and ensuring there is a consequence because now I'm annoyed - and you are annoyed with me too...
Avoiding the above repeating dynamic will be really helpful I think.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
