It's good to know you have the same struggles. I felt like my W was accusing me of war crimes during our BD confrontations. Now though I could easily accuse her of many of the same flaws, especially negativity. I know a lot of this is super enhanced in her because of her fog and delusion. She's a long way from the woman I married for sure.
Why shake those thoughts away? Shouldn't that be part of your own discernment?
I am very close to deciding I don't want to save the M. I don't know if I ever want her again. She so into the OM that I'm grossed out most of the time. And in all her actions she is just moving away from me. She carries around two phones now because I kicked her off our plan.
How long are you giving yourself Tread? How does anyone decide this?
Me46 W46 M25yrs T29yrs 4 children ILYBNILWY 1/30/17 PA confronted 3/6/17 Separated same house
