25yearsmlc 10 Yrs Later I File D part 3

[25yearsmlc]

Hi 180

my point about someone moving into my place is NOT about dating and then rushing, at all...

it's that I am enjoying living alone. Some LBSers do not. I need to experience the "$uck in this" and I need to grow as only someone can do when they are pushed far out of their comfort zone and into their fears... \

I think I am where I need to be.

I also think dating this quickly is reactive, a desire to fill a void that is partly within me. And for sure the desire to appear to have moved on so my kids worry less about me, even though we all know that dating is not necessarily a sign of moving on anymore than not dating means we are stuck.

Coffee? Oh sure. But a part of me thinks many men I may meet are not up for coffee alone. At least some are in a rush to couple up.

I may look younger but the clock says 57, and most men in my dating range want to either always play the field, or hook up & marry asap.

They don't want to be alone or single for long. I've already had guys from my high school years who want to date.

I know for a fact, since they told me, that two would commit based on the past, not on who I am today, as they are tired (or terrified) of being alone forever. Whereas I have been married longer than single.

So That^^ fear of being alone is what I am veering away from. Make sense?