So your W wants to have sex with other men. And your not opposed to that? Does that mean that your willing to have an open marriage? It sounds as if you came off way too soft when she talked about having sex with other men. No woman wants a man soft enough to be cool with her sleeping with other people. Unless your going to be doing the same yourself in the MR. Sometimes the things WS asks for don't need to be respected. To me it sounds if W just wants to keep having sex with OM. While dating you as well. Not sure what your boundaries are, but it might be time to come up with some.
