Yeah, a bit of punishment I guess. Why should I do nice things for her, when she constantly shites on me from a great distance? It's always the kids she uses as a weapon. She says she won't bring the kids to me now on a Tuesday (as she has been doing for the past 18 months) because it's 'too much trouble for her'. So, here's the rub. I come home from work, jump on two buses to get to her (journey time of 60 minutes), bring them to mine (again, 60 minutes) before I would have to take them back again (so, another 60 each way), whereas, it would take her 30 in her car. No, it's just another way to hurt me. I can't afford a car - simple as.
I bought S some new shoes today. Of course, the shoes I bought weren't good enough for her, claiming that he needed a different size, colour etc. despite me getting his feet measured. In fact, I have bought the kids their shoes for the past few times, outwith the maintenance cash I give her, as she can't get it together to do it herself.
Whilst I see what you're saying about being the lighthouse, I don't think she wants to be 'rescued'. Her next boob repair is at the end of the month - that is her focus right now, nothing else.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
