I just don't know what to do. She missed intimacy and didn't feel appreciated by me. So by me pulling away I feel I am doing the opposite of what I need to do. But we had a wonderful time yesterday but I feel by me trying to connect with her I am making it too easy for her to continue like this. But because I haven't always been there for her I am also wondering if by now pulling away again I am making it easier for her to think I am back to my old ways.
But I just told her that I just wanted to respect her wishes that yesterday was my day and today is OM's day (she plans to get a hotel) and that I cannot always be there when she wants me to be there. She got upset and called it passive aggressive. But I am just trying to do what she asked from me.
